Friday, December 4, 2009
S t R e S s E d ? R e A l L y ???
Lots of sights will give you quick easy ideas for decorations. Sometimes, the best is to walk though books and stores then take stock of what you have rearranging different sets together. The idea of our elaborate Christmas decorations came from the Victorians (Gilded Age remember). So even then, it was over the top. Queen Victoria brought the tree to the holidays when she married her husband Albert who was from Germany. The explosion of goods at the turn of the century added to the idea of STUFF.
This year, Americans are under tight budgets. We look around and wonder how we are going to do Christmas. If its any consolation, the Jones next store, are just as strapped as you are.
The best advice I can give you is enjoy the little things, family, friends, baking cookies with the children, and the wonder of lights that adorn many neighborhoods.
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Holiday Celebrations as Stress Relief?
I’m not really a bah-humbug person because I tend to avoid shopping malls between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day. Am I? I’m not crazy about the crowds. The shopping mall overwhelms me as I’m inundated with music, decorations, and the trappings of a holiday that I don’t even celebrate. So, if I need to buy anything during the month of December, I tend to turn to on-line shopping opportunities. This helps to eliminate that blood-boiling-in-my-veins feeling and the tendency to wear my shoulders as earrings that the crowded shopping malls induce.
Now, I don’t want anyone writing in to say I’m anti-Christmas. In fact, I love to be included in any celebration that involves my friends and family. Throughout my lifetime, I have swapped cookies, sipped eggnog, sat on Santa’s lap, made hand-crafted ornaments, and even kissed a few men under the mistletoe. These parts of the holiday did not cause stress for me whatsoever.
This brings me to this simple fact, for me the joy of celebration is all about good company and good food. It doesn’t have to be Christmas to find that joy. While Hanukkah is a mere festival and does not have the important religious significance that Christmas does, it tends to be associated with “the holiday season” because it falls in the winter. That fact aside, Hanukkah leaves an opportunity for eight great nights of celebration with friends, family, and once again, FOOD! We light the menorah, sing songs, play dreidel, eat potato pancakes with applesauce and sour cream, and little jelly donuts – anything fried in oil – deliciously decadent!
It doesn’t have to be the winter holiday season to find that joy, either. Keep that holiday spirit all year long, be it a birthday, an anniversary, a Saturday, or a Tuesday. Relieve the stress of the day-to-day by enjoying the company of those you love.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
I Don't Have Time for a Stress-Free Holiday!
ven THOUGHT about it. I haven’t had a haircut in months, my nails have no pretty color on them, and are starting to get nibbled upon.Help!
Organization! That’s what I need. It serves me well in every other area of my life. I’m a self-admitted over-organizer! I printed a December calendar and wrote all the important events on their scheduled day. Then, on the back, I started a list of what I need to bring for each. A Toy for Tot, a pot-luck dish, a food shelf donation, a bottle of wine for the hostess.
Okay, I’m feeling better now that I’ve got some structure. But the calendar looks like a winning cover-all bingo card! I guess it’s time to simplify. As a rule, and a lifestyle, I like to take on more than I should (my husband is always telling me to stop volunteering!) I have three unanswered party invitations in my in-box, and I think I’ll have to respond with regrets - and keep the hostess bottle-of-wine for myself!
How does December get to be so crazy? I LOVE the people who hold off and have their parties in January, or February. Here in Minnesota, those two months are truly uncomfortable. March is when folks vacation in southern climates, but the period between New Year’s and Vacation Week causes a great deal of craziness.
To help remind Minnesotans that they can survive another few months until spring, our city hosts the Saint Paul Winter Carnival. If you’ve never experienced it, I recommend it. There are two parades - one at night, called the Torchlight Parade, which is a blast. Outdoor skating rinks, broomball tournaments, ice carving contests, and dozens of indoor events. A week’s worth of fun activities for kids, and evening adult fun, too.
Okay, back to reality. It’s December 2, and I’m staring at a mighty to-do list. Well, maybe it won’t be too bad if I can organize, simplify, and concentrate on enjoying the next 30 days. Holidays should be joyous, and peaceful, and I WILL learn to espouse those wonderful virtues!

I’d love to hear your stress relievers. Post a comment and share your suggestions for handling holiday stress.
Joyfully and peacefully yours,
Laura
LauraBreck.com
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Tuesday, December 1, 2009
The Roses of Prose December Contest
So far, the goodie bag contains:
From Amber: a paperback edition of one of her print books as well as something special to be announced
From Kianna: a copy of Skye's the Limit
From Laura: a copy of Secret Vegas Lives, a goodie bag of her promotional items, and chocolate
From Lisa: one sheet of Double Out and Back postage stamps and an autographed oversized postcard of the cover of Double Out and Back
From Nancy: a copy of Desitnation Daytona, and a copy of Sweetbrier Academy Having Faith
More info to follow, and more gifts will be added, so please comment today and every day through December 25 for more chances to win!
Happy Holidays from The Roses of Prose!
Monday, November 30, 2009
Holiday Kindness

In recent years, I've learned to step back and reevaluate. The holidays are all about giving and family so I do my best to give to families in need. Whether a dollar for The Salvation Army every time I buy a title from Books-a-Million and donating clothes, food, toys, and books to charities like The Angel Tree, I do what I can to make things a little less stressful for families who don't have the means to celebrate.
As an animal lover, I do my best to donate to The Humane Society or The World Wildlife Fund. Also as a family touched by illness, when gift shopping, I do my best to purchase gifts that keeps giving such as The New Cookbook Celebrating the Promise which features fresh foods that reduce the risk of cancer with recipes from Paula Deen, Sandra Lee, and many other celebrity chefs or other "For the Cure" items such as notebooks, pens, sportbud earphones - even tea!
Another favorite holiday charity of mine is Literacy, Inc. - "a non-profit organization on a mission to fight illiteracy across America by reaching out to high school students in all corners of the continental United States" and fights illiteracy "one book at a time." As someone who struggled to learn to read then was inspired by reading to journey down this path of life and became a member of Romance Writers of America - a champion of the fight against illiteracy - the importance of seeing a child or teenager read a book cover to cover is crucial!Sunday, November 29, 2009
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Saturday, November 28, 2009
Guest Spotlight: M.S. Spencer

In an era electric with possibility and peril Chloe Gray, political writer, and Michael Keller, CIA troubleshooter, meet under curiously conventional circumstances. Despite the instantaneous sparks, they both sense there is more between them than physical attraction. Chloe's professional detachment from the dramatic world events of the 1990s—a disintegrating USSR, Middle East peace talks, and Vietnam's reemergence on the world stage—dissolves as their love affair intensifies.
Michael appears and disappears at unpredictable moments, leaving her limp and lovelorn. Is he using her or protecting her? In her quest for answers, she is yanked into the dangerous world of Michael's work—in Washington, DC, in France, and in Spain. Looking for safe harbor (for her emotions? or her body?), she submits to the advances of a dashing French diplomat. Will she embrace the luxury and comfort of Emile and his chateau or the romance of international intrigue with Michael?
We’re glad to have you with us today, M.S.! Please tell us more about Lost in His Arms. How did the idea for it develop? What inspired you to write it?
Believe it or not, the idea came almost fully developed out of a dream! I was laid up for 6 months with nothing to do and thus had the opportunity to sit (well, lie) down, finish a manuscript and submit it. The story—as stories do—took on a life of its own once I started to fill in the action, weaving in background from my own life in DC and in France.
Your heroine, Chloe, seems to be caught up in the world of political intrigue. You worked for a political office for some time. Did that experience help you develop this story?
Absolutely. I worked for a Senate committee, for a Senator (personal office) and for the Dept. of the Interior. Working for a Committee (in the Chief Counsel’s office) gave me a thorough knowledge of the legislative process. Along with my work as a speechwriter for the Senator, in policy at Interior, & working on several campaigns, I had a chance to observe sausage making…er, politics, from every angle. My background in Middle East Studies helped as well.
Can you tell us a bit about Chloe and what readers will like about her?
Chloe is much like many of the single women with high-powered jobs you find “Inside the Beltway;” i.e., between her independence and her femininity she walks a shaky tightrope. She wants to love and be loved, but she focuses on the pain sometimes more than the joy. I think many readers out there will sympathize (if not empathize) with a heroine who doesn’t always know what is the best path to her happiness. I guess that’s what heroes are for.
Lost in His Arms features two heroes, Michael and Emile. Did you know from the beginning of the story that Chloe would be caught between two men or did the story call for it in the midst of it?
Now give us the skinny on Michael. What will romance readers like about him? Emile?
Michael is a real man. He is a strong person who knows immediately what he wants but has the
The romance in this story plays a big factor, judging by the blurb. What does being a part of the erotic romance genre mean to you?
My genre is really contemporary, “tangy”, as in 3 flames. It is pitched to attract mature readers who know what sex is (if you will). One reason I chose to write a romance was for the pure power of it: I would control the extent and type of romance and sex in my story—no sitting through 300 pages to the last chapter for one lousy kiss. Ha. As we all know, once the story took off it was completely out of my hands.
According to your website biography, Lost in His Arms is your first romance. We love first sale stories here at TRoP. Care to share your journey to publication?
As a writer friend once told me, I suffered from “submission anxiety”. I have written all my life—poetry, short stories, a murder mystery. They sit for the most part in drawers. Thank God for e-books—clicking “submit” was a lot easier than finding envelopes and stamps! I submitted LIHA first to Mills & Boon—and received a simple rejection after 6 months. But I then submitted to Freya’s Bower & the blessed acquisitions editor liked it so much that, though she rejected it, she went through the 3 chapters with an editor’s pen and LOTS of advice. The third time—to Red Rose—was a charm.
You have another title coming soon called Lost & Found. Can you tell us what it’s about?
Set mainly in Maine :), Lost & Found will be released in Red Rose’s Autumn Rose line. Rose Culloden, a beautiful heiress from Boston, has lost (literally) her new husband. She follows his trail to Maine and Florida, primarily out of loyalty as her love slowly wanes. During her investigations she meets a Maine guide and despite herself falls in love with him, but feels she must find closure before she can open her heart to him. In an exciting (if I may say so) denouement she discovers that her husband is both evil and insane.
You have also worked as a librarian. To you, how important are libraries, especially as the book industry drives more and more into the digital age?
There will always be a need for libraries, no matter what form the books are in. Digitization will only make books more accessible to more people. I love to read and handle books (I used to price rare books), but I feel it is more important to make books available to readers than to fuss about format. I’ve asked for an e-reader for Christmas!
Thanks for sharing with us today, M.S.! Lost in His Arms sounds likes an exciting read! Would you mind sharing a short taste with our readers?
Chloe pulled his arm closer. "It is not just a cut. It's a gash. Look at all the blood you’ve dripped on my floor! Come here." She held his arm under the faucet and carefully washed the grit out of the wound. "Now just stay there. Press this paper towel against the cut. I'll go get some Neosporin and a bandage." She slipped up the stairs and through her bedroom to the bathroom. As she came out with the supplies she stopped short. He was sitting on her bed.
"I thought I would save you a trip." He spoke diffidently.
"Oh…that's…okay." Chloe willed herself not to touch his thigh as she sat down on the bed next to him (too close?). She applied the ointment and bandage, trying to keep her hands from trembling. He must have noticed anyway, because he put his larger one over hers and gently squeezed.
"Is the blood bothering you?"
Readers, be sure to check out M.S.'s website to learn more about Lost in His Arms and Lost & Found. You can network with her on Twitter. You can purchase Lost in His Arms at Red Rose Publishing today!


